More about hearths

Given the focus of Hearth Gatherings I guess it is not so surprising that i have been paying particular attention to fires and what makes one hearth more welcoming than another and how the experience changes. So far, only a small case srudy of three but here goes.

Case Study One: the hermitage at Solas Bridhe Kildare where I lit the fire and enjoyed a glass of red

Case Study Two: A posh pub in Ballyvaughan where singles like me were shown to the bar to eat perched on a bar stool and the fire was blocked from view by the musicians and gave no real warmth to the room.

Case Study Three: In walking distance from my Congleton B and B I found the Queens Head tucked away below a bridge. I stepped into a warm room and was met by a bouncy bar/wait person who escorted me to the table next to the fire and offered me a drink. Looking around I could see that this was truly a "local" pub filled with people who knew each other well. The sign outside said "Dogs and Wellies welcome in the bar". Within minutes of handing me a half of the local bitter Zoe had found out enough about me to introduce me to the customers and we have a lively discussion going except with the chaps in the corner with the Collie dog.

Zoe tells me they are a bit deaf, however they let me take a photo of them with Frank's dog Sally. There is a tenderness between these men that brings tears to my eyes. While I am eating a delicious meal with proper vegetables the band begins practicing in the other room and we are bathed in soulful ballads and some rousing dance tunes. I notice that one of the band has opted for a pot of tea and so I indicate that I would like to finish my meal in the same way.

So, what do you think makes a hearth a place of welcome and homecoming?

For me, I think it is being invited in to the warmth of the fire, feeling drawn into a community even if only for an hour or two, having someone take the time to know your name and use it and being accepted as you are. Good food and drink have something to do with it as does music freely offered. But mostly I think it is the company of fellow travellers that creates the sense of being at home.